Therapy for ENM, polyamorous and open relationships
Maybe you've had a therapist who decided your relationship structure was the problem.
Or you've spent the first three sessions explaining what a metamour is.
Or you haven't gone to therapy at all, because you weren't sure anyone would get it.
Here, you won't have to defend how you love.
We start from the belief that there are many ways to build a meaningful relationship, and that yours deserves the same care and curiosity as any other.
What brings people in
Opening a relationship. You're thinking about it, just started, or partway in and realizing you need better maps.
When one of you wants to open things and the other isn't sure. We won't push either of you toward an answer. We'll help you actually hear each other.
Jealousy, insecurity, and comparison. These aren't signs you're "bad at" non-monogamy. They're information, and they deserve room.
Agreements that keep breaking. Figuring out what you each really need, and what's underneath the rules.
Navigating multiple relationships. Time, attention, hinge dynamics, metamours, and the logistics nobody warns you about.
Coming out as ENM to family, friends, or yourself.
Relationship struggles that have nothing to do with being ENM. Sometimes communication is just communication.
How we work
We work with individuals, couples, and other relationship configurations, including more than two partners in the room when that's what's needed.
Our approach is relational and attachment-informed. Non-monogamy can bring up very old questions: Am I enough? Will I be left? Can I want what I want? We help you meet those questions with more steadiness, so your relationships can be built from choice rather than fear.
Who you'll work with
Steevy Griffin, LMFT
Steevy's style is warm, engaged, and direct. She won't tiptoe around the hard conversations, and she won't treat your structure as something to be fixed.
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Questions people ask
Will you try to talk us out of non-monogamy?
No. Our job is to help you build relationships that work for everyone in them, whatever structure that is.
Can my partners come to sessions too?
Yes. We can talk through what makes sense during your consultation.
Do you offer virtual sessions?
Yes. Steevy sees clients virtually across New York and Florida.
